Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Any Gemini thinking of a Taurus?

Rate yourself with a Gemini.(Part 11.)

To all the Geminis: Taureans are known to have an attractive personality! This should however not be mistaken to mean that the relationship is a smooth sail. As a matter of fact, these two mostly live parallel lives, but we start with the good news.

It’s not all doom for this pair. They both enjoy art and have a thirst for knowledge albeit it is expressed in very diverse manners. Their greatest strength is that they usually make up for each other’s weaknesses. Gemini are very adventurous and chatty too while Taureans are generally laid back. The former are also quite indecisive while Taureans prefer to be organized-the type with a plan A and plan B. This works well for this relationship as they are able to specialize in projects that they undertake together or even in any area where they choose to share responsibility.

However, patience is a word that is highly required if a union between these two groups is to be. Geminis love change, are somewhat hyper and are actually put off by introverts. The Taurus on the other hand are quiet and keep much to themselves. The Gemini will usually tend to find other people who are more interesting and will most likely spend a good deal of time flirting around or cheating on their partner. This is certainly no ingredient for a relationship, leave alone marriage.

All factors considered, this is definitely not a match served on a silver platter. The differences in their personalities are quite huge and if couples are not aware of their strengths and weaknesses, they may never truly realize what they could have been. Gemini and Taurus would best work as business partners rather than lovers in a relationship but if they are still willing to go with the latter, they better be willing to live with the consequences caused by the differences.

Monday, May 18, 2009

Having trouble with your Gemini Man?

3 Things that could turn your relationship around!

Generally, Geminis are known to be very outgoing. They love adventure and are very spontaneous. They are put off by introverts. If you are a woman in a relationship with such a man, you have to make some adjustments if you want to re-ignite the flame. You may not always want to go somewhere or try out something new, but you have to try at least half the time. If you don’t really like being outdoors, you can try bring excitement into the room by suggesting you try do something new. Become creative. You could experiment a new dish, play a new indoor game, rearrange the house or even paint a room in the house. All these spell fun for a Gemini and it will help contain that roving eye and bring the attention back to you.

A woman in this relationship needs to be open-minded. The man here is usually easy and does not take time to adjust to new situations. They may therefore not understand why a woman may be so fussy when for instance, a particular plan does not work. Women generally love attention and therefore like having things their way. However, if your man is Gemini, try to be understanding as you may put your man off by being too rigid. Try being open to new ideas even when the original plan fails. This will not only make your man like you for your spontaneity, but it will also leave you happier and hence you can be able to have lots of fun.

Blond is what you should never be if you are in a relationship with a Gemini. Reading girly magazines alone will only update you on girl talk but it will make you loose your man. As much as most men love to have a woman they can have an intelligent conversation with, these men are on the extreme. You therefore need to open your eyes to what is going on around you. Read widely, follow politics and be aware of the major current affairs. At least know something about the sport he likes and if you can, read about something that you are sure he does not have a clue about and you can teach him. The Gemini man is attracted to wit and will therefore appreciate information that he is lacking.

Gemini and Aries

Rate yourself with a Gemini (Part 1)
Aries are adventurous and playful. Geminis are spontaneous and fun-loving. A relationship between the two is therefore full of adventure. Geminis particularly are usually unable to concentrate on a single event and they are easily turned on by extroverts. This union is usually full of energy. The couple is usually very eager to try out new things and the curiosity by the two of them keeps them on fire. They are both social and not only enjoy each others company but they love meeting new people and making friends.

For a Gemini Man and an Aries woman, the relationship will be simply exciting. These men are known to be great kissers. They are also affectionate and the woman who is usually very passionate enjoys the attention. The only problem is that these men are not usually very faithful even though they mostly keep this undercover. The woman will however have a good time if she does not take the relationship very deeply.

For a Gemini woman and an Aries man, some say this is the kind of match made in heaven. The physical chemistry between the two is strong. The woman comes out strong especially when she communicates and she enjoys having someone to share her thoughts with.

Both partners are intelligent and they love talking. Since they cannot concentrate on a particular activity, Aries can come in handy and try to give direction to this strong union. The disagreements here are usually heated and may escalate to very high levels. However it is consoling to know that every other area of this relationship will enjoy the fiery sessions and this means lots of romance. Long-term relationships for this pair will however require a lot of effort but with determination it can be achieved.

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Geminis in relationships and money.

There certainly is no doubt that the numbers of Geminis who are currently celebrities are something to write home about. This is not to mean that there are no celebrities on other zodiac signs-no. We are simply looking at the overwhelming number and trying to learn a trick or two from the relationships around them, which have led to their success in different areas of life.

I choose to lay focus on a particular Gemini and that is Donald Trump. This is in order to unravel the mystery of attracting money to oneself through the relationships we have with those who surround us. Now, ‘Donald Trump’ may not auger well with everyone. There is a good number of people who think he is simply too arrogant and full of himself. We all however have to give it up to him because through his own means, we could say he has made it by any standards.
The wisest thing one could do is not to criticize such people but to try and borrow a leaf or two. There are two main things I have learnt from Donald Trump.

Stick to your stand. Confidence is important if one is hoping to convince people that he can actually sell them a service or product. Trump is one person who is always so sure about what he says. Not to say that he never makes mistakes but when he is leading his team in business, he always looks very confident in his decisions and opinions. When one shows such a clear stand, people following them tend to have great reassurance about whichever business they are in and as a result, put in more effort and output.

Always have a reason as to why you are doing what you are doing. In his famous show-‘The Apprentice’, Trump is always very strict in the boardroom when he is talking to the leaders about why they made the decisions that they made. He always tries to drive in the fact that one should always have an in-depth analysis of a situation before making any major decision in business. This is because a small mistake may leave your business crippled for a long period of time. He has emphasized that one needs to know the effect of a decision on the short and long-term growth of a business.This famous Gemini has also greatly talked about the need to bear consequences for the mistakes that we make knowing full well that shutting down is not the answer.We simply have to find a way of having relationships with those we work with so that the synergy keeps us afloat, if we need the money to come trickling in.

Common problems in Gemini Relationships

Gemini relationships are usually faced with a major problem of lack of consistency by the gemini partner. Those in this zodiac are known to have a dual character meaning they have double personalities. This leads to them being distracted very often and so they are not able to concentrate on their relationships. They may also want one person one day and after sometime, they feel totally fed up with them. Maybe this would explain the behavior of most Gemini celebrities.

There is a thin line between hard work and overstimulation. Most Geminis unfortunately miss this line. No matter how much energy one thinks they have, the fact remains that all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. They sometimes get too playful and it may get irritating to a partner especially if he or she does not belong to the same zodiac sign.

Gemini people and especially the men usually talk too much. This usually lands them in trouble with their female partners who usually never get a chance to talk. Women really value attentions and are generally known to be the sex that really values being listened to. They therefore cannot usually stand men who always have something to say as they feel that they are competing for attention from each other.

One of the worst shortcomings of Geminis is the fact that they are very irritable. The worst thing about it is the fact that, they can sometimes become insensitive to their partners who may not be as witty or as upbeat as they are. This has usually caused a rift in many Gemini relationships and it is mostly because if partners come from different zodiac signs, they do not understand why their partners behave the way they do.

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5 Great things to lookout for in a Gemini!

Straight forward.-There are certain strengths that anyone in a Gemini relationship should be aware of. In a world where marriages, engagements and relationships are falling apart, it certainly is important to have a straight-forward person as a partner. Gemini are known to hit the nail on the head and speak facts as they are. This is one trait which is needed if we are to get rid of cheating in relationships.

Multitasking.-This group of people are also known to comfortably handle different situations with a maximum of ease. This ranges from having various successfully running projects on hand to having multiple streams of income. Anyone who has multiple jobs in this economy and running them effectively is sure to have minimal after-effects of the credit crunch.

Open-minded.-It is very important to have an open mind since we don’t have full control of everything that happens around us. This category of people is able to easily adjust to changing situations and opportunities. This is one quality that should be treasured in any person as it means it reduces instances of strain in a relationship. Most relationships break-up because life keeps presenting new situations that the couple is unable to deal with. This could be loss of a job by one partner or even meeting of a new person who seems more loving and better than one’s partner. Such circumstances need someone with an open mind since only they would know in advance that such could occur and hence it would not be a reason for them to break up.

Out-going.-Our Gemini brothers and sisters are known to be very outgoing. They are usually quite playful and they love adventure. One is therefore in for some fun since these people always seem to have something interesting to do or an interesting place to go up their sleeves. This particular character makes association with a Gemini quite spicy. A relationship where there is always something new to discover would generally last longer as it breaks the monotony experienced in ordinary relationships.

Clever.-Lastly, those in this category are known to be pretty witty. They display this through clever conversations or writing which are blended in with a lot of humor. We all want to laugh and it is also not such a bad idea to hangout with a person who would teach you a thing or two while they entertain you. If this is what you are looking for, then Gemini relationship is the way to go.

Thursday, May 7, 2009

If I were a boy...

'If I were a boy'...This song played on radio and I found myself humming along and that's when I wondered what if I was actually one...hmm... what Gemini relationship would I go for? I went to my earlier list and I thought Angelina Jolie!.. Now for her to really like me, I guess my name would have to be Henry...somebody. Then, I would sure be close to her because it seems when your name starts with an H, you are one step closer to her heart. That would make me happy, to have the first letter of my name tattooed on her left wrist...maybe then we would compete for attention with her brother James Haven.- That would not be so nice.

Wait...she collects knives and has an interest in mortuaries! She even had a childhood dream of being a funeral director!Yikes... I think I would strive everyday to keep her happy. I'm not sure I'd really have a choice. I would not want the combination of knife and mortuary landing on me!

Hmm...I wonder what it makes you feel-having someone in your life rated so highly on the looks department. I think it would make me more insecure than proud. I wonder whether that is what makes gemini celebrity marriages break every now and then. I would give anything not to end up there.

So much for the scary bit. At least we have one thing in common, I happen to be very empathetic. That would take her role as a goodwill ambassador to new heights. Having the resources... I think we would have so many children from allover the place. I think I'd always feel "let's help one more" and the next thing we'd know, we'd have adopted half of Africa's children!

Well, back to earth...I think I'm happy to be a woman. If I have to think of another Gemini relationship... it will have to be the normal way- with a man!

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

A Gemini relationship - A ticket to celebrity?

Gemini’s are people born in between May 22nd and June 21st. Nothing very unusual or special for me. As a matter of fact, I realized I don’t really get along with Geminis despite the fact that they are actually known to be affectionate. I always think it’s because am Capricorn. Anyway, now, one day I was going through a research on celebrities and just wondering what if?..I believe every one does that when they are building castles in the air. Well, the most astonishing thing was the coincidence that every single person I thought of checking out that day, man or woman, happened to be a Gemini.

I thought movies…hmm…Wentworth Miller…a Gemini, Colin Farrel and Morgan Freeman the same. I thought what if I was a little older…Clint Eastwood actually shares a birthday with Colin Farrel. All this not forgetting Angelina Jolie, Helen Hunt, Drew Carey, Naomi Campbell and even Donald Trump! Well, there were many others and the one thing they have in common is that they were born around the same time.

I started thinking to myself…did this mean something, like was it a sign…but then again I thought to myself, a sign of ahhhmmm….what? Well, ever since, it’s been crossing my mind… What if I had actually hooked up with one of these people? Would I be feeling this economic meltdown thing? Would I be in a cafĂ© like I am now, writing this, or would there be paparazzi allover me thinking of a juicy story to write about me?
I have actually been analyzing a relationship with each of the people that I thought about that day. It just seems to cross my mind at that moment in my day when am just chilling out. It’s been interesting. Lookout for the analysis!