Monday, June 1, 2009

5 sure ways to get over a Gemini break up.

One great strength of Gemini that also doubles up as a great weakness is their adventurous nature.
Many people have found themselves in such relationships and upon discovering that the roving eye of the Gemini has led to them cheating, it has caused major break-ups.This is especially when they link with Cancer and Libra who are not only straightforward but also touchy and emotional.
If you have been a victim of such a break-up, well, it is not the end of the world.
The following are sure ways to heal your heart and hurt while preparing you for better relationships in the future.

1. Acceptance.
The first step to any type of healing is acceptance. After a break-up, it’s okay to cry for sometime but one cannot sulk forever. Tell and remind yourself that it is over and you are going to be just fine. It’s okay to spend time going through the presents or any reminder of your relationship before eventually putting them away. However, don’t be tempted to make desperate calls to your ex, as these will only be met by a cold answer-if any-which will only leave you feeling more miserable.

2. Love yourself
Just because he left you for another more fun-loving woman doesn’t mean you sink into depression. You still have to comb your hair, dress up, go out and have fun. You don’t want to look miserable-your ex might even wonder what they were thinking dating you. If anything it’s time to treat yourself. Buy yourself that outfit or phone that you have been saving up for. Visit that place that you have always longed for, but never got the chance to go to. Basically, learn that you don’t have to rely on others to appreciate you. You can do it yourself.

3. Find optimistic friends
This is the time to look for that person in your life that opts to see the glass as half-full rather than half-empty. Find this person and share with them what happened and what you feel about it. It is important to be positive as this helps quicken the healing process.
Optimism is what keeps people going since relationships and infact, life in general is a risk.

4. Engage in activities
After a break-up, one suddenly finds themselves with a lot of time in their hands since they no longer spend time with their partner. One should not stay idle as this will only help them remember how sad their situation is and hence they are likely to stay sad longer. If you find yourself in such a spot, take advantage of this time. Do that course that you have always postponed, go shopping for that book that you always wanted to read or call up that old friend who you always missed but never had time for and you can catch up. You can also enroll in a sport or game or even join a new club depending on your interests. This will leave you with little time to cry over the spilt milk.

5. Leave room to love again
Like I said earlier on, a break-up is not the end of the world. It may just be that you hadn’t read the glaring signs and made excuses for the cheating Gemini. They say there is someone for everyone. Keep looking, have good relations with people and don’t block everyone out as you may kill your chance of ever experiencing real love. All the same, be careful, remember once beaten, twice shy.


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